What does it mean to be both gay and male? There’s no simple answer. This intriguing exploration delves into the evolution of gay male identity, from the Castro district’s vibrant culture in the 1970s to the modern-day communities of Bears and fitness enthusiasts. The film challenges outdated stereotypes by featuring a diverse array of interviewees, including bodybuilders, rodeo cowboys, rugby athletes, and law enforcement officers. These men openly discuss issues ranging from homophobia to metrosexuality and the acceptance of effeminate traits, offering insights into the contemporary experience of being a gay man in America.